No 15
Think plural by default
“Should I do this thing—or not?” is a limited perspective.
Plural thinking only takes a subtle shift: where you expect a singular, toss a plural. Not “the answer” — answers. Not “the goal” — goals. Not “the truth” — truths, which are everywhere and ready for the plucking.
Which group of friends to include? All of them. Which ideas to consider? All of them. Plural thinking is the assumption that there’s enough room—curation comes later. Your world gets richer because there’s more in it.
“What do I want” becomes “what do we want?” “What’s the answer” becomes “What are the answers?” “What should we do?” becomes “What could we do?”
You don’t have to keep everything you find. This is merely an invitation to start from a place of abundance.